Last updated November 2026
Keep it anonymous
Describe the moment, not the person's identity. Outfits, drinks, vibes: yes. Names, handles, workplaces: no.
Keep it kind
Be flattering, never creepy. No comments about bodies, nothing sexual, nothing mean.
Take no for an answer
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Report, don't engage
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